I ran into the manager I wrote about on May 11th at
a memorial for a good friend of mine.
My good friend had been a manager in another department and
had beat cancer stage IV in 2016 (mine was 2017 Stage 3A)
Not the same type of cancer.
Hers came back with a vengeance. I don't know if she was doing
the follow up blood work or not. She went to the doctor because
of a back ache and they found her full of the vile disease.
Her husband had passed less than six months prior and she was
gone within 6 weeks.
I remained friends with about seven other women from that work
place and we (more or less) got together once a month since
we all worked there.
The memorial was a day of bittersweet memories. I saw a lot of
people I had not seen in over 30 years. I had left this job in
1995 and worked in education until I retired in 2024.
There were a few I recognized right away and a couple that I had
to apologetically ask their name. We shared stories of the past
and had a few laughs. It relieved the sadness of it all. The
friend who passed was one hell of a lady.
She had 3 songs play during the memorial. I suppose she picked
them.
The songs that my friend had play were:
"The Rose" - Bette Midler
"The Dance" - Garth Brooks
"What a Wonderful World" - Louis Armstrong
It got me to thinking about what I would want.
I looked up "popular songs played at funeral/memorials".
I decided on:
"Ding Dong the Witch is Dead" - Wizard of Oz
"Knocking on Heaven's Door" - Bob Dylan
"Cold As Ice" - Foreigner
runner ups:
"Stayin' Alive" - Bee Gees
"Another One Bites the Dust" - Queen
and I told my daughter if she played "Don't Worry, Be Happy"
by Bobby McFerrin I would come back and haunt her.
I loathe that song!
Oh, this list of choices is written here in jest. Of course I
won't have them play at my memorial. Well...



















