Sunday, May 31, 2026

This made me laugh


 Reading the book on Vikings, I discovered that ancient notes (post-it notes) written in the old language from the times was a way the Vikings communicated with one another.  Bathroom humor was common even back then.  The one that made me laugh was one a wife would use and give to a clansman to give to her husband down at the local watering hole.  It said something like "Grog, you come home now."

Reminds me of the old Andy Capp comic strip.

Saturday, May 30, 2026

And then there was one


 I know this image shows three of them, I have not taken any photos since this set.  But, I peeked this morning and there is only one baby bird left.  He is so big.  He looked at me and I just backed away and wished him luck.

I was lucky in the area of allergies growing up.  But, I think I'm having some issues now.  I was outside most of the evening at an event and my eyeballs hurt.  They feel scratchy, swelled and I have some blurred vision.  I've taken ibuprofen twice today for a headache so I'm just going to skip any meds, drink some water and go to bed.  We'll see when I wake up.

I believe the first Agatha Christie book I was introduced to was "Ten Little Indians" or "And Then There Were None".  I was hooked.



Friday, May 29, 2026

Pink Polka Dot


 I am having lots of luck with the pink polka dot plant.  I have quite a few started and I will be giving them away to friends and family if they are interested.  My daughter got me the cute little planter.  She gave me a set of 5 of them (different colors) and when I line them up they look like one of those trains for children to ride made out of big barrels.  I'll be moving the plant soon as it will outgrow this planter very fast.

And three of the second batch of baby birds are still in the nest.  I am keeping my distance because they are so big (I think the fourth one was pushed out to make room) I am worried they may try to fly to get away from me if I move any of the branches to get a picture.  I will just peek at them through the branches and wish them well.

The Viking book is going slow.  It is very detail oriented and my mind wanders.  I have to keep going back and re-reading.  I copied the map from the book so I can reference it and I also get on Google maps and look at the locations (well, how they look today anyway).  Denmark, Sweden, Norway. 

Thursday, May 28, 2026


 Priya Parmar.  She wrote a book (novel, part fiction) about Kate Hepburn.  The story was okay.  I think she followed Kate's life from what she read in news articles, interviews and books.  The book was okay.  I read a few things that I did not know about other celebrities of that time.   After researching online I believe them to be true.

So, I watched a couple of her old movies from the late 30s.  Ugh.  No thanks. 

The book only went up to 1940 when she became a star again with the movie "The Philadelphia Story".  She went through a rough patch after the controversial Sylvia Scarlett where she portrayed a young girl passing herself off as a boy to help her father stay anonymous.  Silly movie, really.  I did like Julie Andrews though when she did it - Victor/Victoria.  Perhaps it was James Garner that I liked.  Ha!

In May I read the two that I have mentioned:

The Original by Priya Parmar

Esperance by Adam Oyebanji  (posted about this one yesterday)

and:

Going There by Katie Couric

Remarkably Bright Creatures  by Shelby Van Pelt  (movie on Netflix with Sally Field currently)

John and Paul by Ian Leslie

The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold (saw the movie years ago. It upset me so much I went outside and just went to town on my hedges with the clippers.)

and this one was interesting, had not heard of this person/story:

The Stranger in the Woods by Michael Finkel.  This guy lived out in the woods by himself for over 25 years in the state of Maine (bitter cold winters and all).  He stole supplies and food from a nearby camp site that housed over 100 cabins.  The campers in the area who lived there for years all knew that somebody was stealing their food and stuff but he eluded capture for a long time.  They all claim he had to have had help somehow, there was no way he survived without ever having a fire (because of the smoke would give him away).  

I've cracked one open about Vikings.  Only in a few pages, but it seems enjoyable.  I have to keep re-reading as I get distracted since it is a history/fact-based book and my mind can wander on about every day stuff and I get mad at myself.

Most of my TV shows are finished for the season or have been canceled.  I finished the season of 'Animal Control' but I won't be watching any more.  I think it is going to be the same with 'Dark Winds'.  Have lost interest.  Bad Monkey was canceled as was 'The Last Frontier'.  That one got silly anyway.  Bad Monkey was different and the author had other books that I think the series could have continued - they weren't the same story line but who cares?  One book a season.  Dark Winds is just too dark for me.  I liked it at first but it just got weird.

I have nothing new in movies except for the 'Remarkably Bright Creatures' on Netflix (book above).  The movie was different in places than the book (of course).  As was The Lovely Bones - movie wrapped things up quicker as expected.

I am looking forward to Monday, June 1st.  My Mom's birthday.  She would have been 106.  All siblings and spouses are meeting at an Inn for lunch.  My siblings range from Brother 1942 to me 1960.  

Tuesday, May 26, 2026


 I was never a big fan of science fiction.  My sister 1949 and brother-in-law 1944 are.  (Not her husband). Husband of sister 1944.  He is a big Jack Reacher fan also.

This one pulled me in because it was a murder mystery.  My morbid brain loves anything about murder, unsolved mysteries and serial killers.  And biographies, autobiographies.

This author has written other books and I might have a go at them, hoping they hold my interest the same way.  I couldn't stop reading this one.  

I was resting the day after a huge family cook-out. Sister 1944 had 41 family members (six from her husband's side, three friends and the rest our family) at her house in the pouring rain.  The ground was so saturated the swampy mud was sucking our shoes in.  My "going visiting" tennis shoes now look worse than my outside only PUP (picking up "dog" poop) shoes.

My dog and cat are behind me being very vocal.  Funny, they have exactly a whole other hour before it's feeding time but they do know when time is on the "hour".  I guess time change will do that.  Make them wonder is it this hour or that hour we get fed?  

I had to break down and get my water squirt bottle back out because my cat is being SO annoying and vocal the past couple of weeks about his unhappiness.  We gate off certain rooms and he keeps pawing at (rattling) the gate to the kitchen.  I figure he wants a drink of water (even though there is water right next to him).  I open the gate, he walks into the kitchen and just wanders around meowing, like "How about a treat, lady?  This is the treat room, right?"  Grrrrr.

My (old) dog, Milton stands behind my chair and shifts his weight from leg to leg (on a wooden floor his nails click).  Bugs the hell out of me and he knows it!  I let him outside to do his business.  Back to standing behind my chair.  I see if he wants water.  Sure, always drinks water.  Back to standing behind my chair.  He wants a treat and he is not getting one.  They have me trained so well!   Grrrr.




Friday, May 22, 2026

Curler casualty


 Fall of 1970 I believe.  5th grade.  I slept in curlers.  The night before picture day.  Why would anybody think that sleeping (actually, not sleeping) in curlers would make you look fresh and rested on picture day?  I was 10.  I did not have much control over it.  I had straight, stringy, fine hair.  It tangled easily.  The curlers left weird mis-shaped dents in the front part of my hair.  I hated not having bangs.  I had them through fourth grade and had bangs again in 8th grade.  Fifth through seventh - no bangs.  I hated every school picture from that time.


Speaking of curlers, my nephew was an extra in the movie Super 8.  When I watched the movie I laughed at the part where a Mom was talking to a police officer about her missing daughter. She told him her daughter had curlers in her hair.  She asked the policeman "Do you know what curlers are?"  He said "Yes! I know what curlers are!"  The movie was written to take place in 1979 in Weirton WV.  I laughed. I loved that little piece of dialogue.

Thursday, May 21, 2026

Update on Batch 2


 The four are coming along very nicely.  A bit crowded, but they keep one another warm I suppose.

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

2nd batch of eggs


 Mama Robin has been busy.  It is hard to say if this is the same robin or a different one.  Probably the same one as my daughter looked it up and they can have 3 - 4 clutches a season.  The first batch had 3 eggs.  Now, I am watching the 2nd batch develop.  They are not out in the open as this image makes them look.  I pull the branches away and stick my phone up as close as I can to get the picture.  I make sure mama is out and about before I take photos.  I leave the nest there at the end of summer so that a mama bird can use it the next season, but I think this one is newly created.  Maybe it's the same bird each year. Oh, I just looked it up. The average lifespan of a robin bird is 16 months but some can live up to 8 years if conditions are ideal.  

I think I've only seen robin's eggs in real life.  Other eggs I've seen have only been images. Hold up.  Looking on line the Northern cardinal eggs look familiar.  I believe I have seen them in real life.

Monday, May 11, 2026

Insubordination


Just shut up and do as you're told.


Well, okay.  Mostly I was a "just do as your told" keep your head down,

shut up and do the job worker.  No questions asked.  Until it doesn't 

make sense.  And no explanation is offered.


Back in the 80s I was working an afternoon shift in the tech department where we used

reels of tape to store data in a vault off to the side of the main computer room.


One day I come in (about 3 in the afternoon) and there is a small rack in the

computer room.  My manager instructed me that one of my evening chores was to

take several reels of tape out of the vault and hang them on the smaller rack

in the main computer room.  Any of the reels, it didn't matter, just pick some

and fill the rack up.  Didn't make much sense to me, but whatever.


What pissed me off was the very next night, he instructed me to put them all back.

What the actual fuck?  Shut up and do the job, right?  I took a big breath and

put them all back.  The next day the rack was gone.


No big deal, right?  Yes, a big deal.  I thought less and less of this manager.

This wasn't the only thing about him that irked me.  I had little respect for him.

Over the years, my lack of respect grew until I was ready to leave.


Before I left, I had seen somewhere along the line a picture had been taken of the 

computer room. And, there in all it's glory was the small rack with the data reels 

hanging from it.  It was aesthetics.  All he wanted was for reels of tape to be seen 

when somebody was coming to take pictures.  But, he never told me this. He probably

thought I would have told him to shove it if I knew the real reason he wanted

me to do this stupid, pointless task.


In the long run, I still think little of that (man)ager today.



Years before that, one of my jobs was to return defective toys to their manufacturer

for a refund.  It was a tedious and time consuming job.  The toys were tossed into a back room.  This

 was an Automotive/Hardware store and the owner would sell toys around Christmas time.  He told me

 once since his religion did not celebrate Christmas that he considered staying open on

 Christmas eve just to sell batteries.  As far as I know, he never did.


 One day I went through all the defective toys and organized them in an area that was not being used.  I

 may have even labeled some of the area, I can't recall.


The owner (my boss) came in one day and began kicking them all out of the way.  I don't

recall why.  He was pissed about something.  I had spent a lot of work on that task so

that I could be more efficient about returning them in a timely manner.


Well, that showed me he did not have respect for my time or work.  I neglected the toys

after that, much to his chagrin.  He even made a remark or two months later about my

"mental block" in sending the toys back.  I was young then and did not yet speak up 

for myself.  Mostly because I don't think I realized why I was upset with the task of

returning the toys until years later I recalled that he had done this and it clicked for

me - yes, I had a mental block about it and that was why.


For the most part, I did respect this owner/boss.  But, eventually I left and he was a bit

upset with me.  But hey,  I've come to realize that some people don't leave jobs, they 

leave people (managers and co-workers).

Sunday, May 03, 2026

A Florida Jaunt


A couple siblings and I traveled to Florida in 2003 to assist our half-uncle back to his home in West Palm Beach after he suffered a heart attack on my front door step.  Yep.  We were having a family get together to welcome him and as he arrived at my house, brother 1953 and his wife did also.  My half-uncle told my brother his arm hurt, his chest hurt and he felt like he was going to throw up.  My brother and his wife (both EMTs) recognized he was having a heart attack.  We took him to the ER, they put a stent in and he stayed a week at my house to recover and a few of us took a weeks vacation and drove his car back to Florida.

Back to my regularly schedule program - one day at the beach I happened to look up and there in front of me was a lady with no top on.  Hmm...I didn't think I was on a beach that allowed that.  Sure enough, eventually a couple of gentlemen came and spoke to her.  I didn't watch, I figured she had enough problems. She did have a fellow with her but he was out in the water at the time.  She was sun bathing.  She did look a bit foreign but I really couldn't swear to that.

I think she put her top on, I don't believe they left. Like I said, I didn't want to stare at her so I don't recall what she did.  I just went on about my business.

I have no idea why this memory came to me today, but I was curious so I looked up topless beaches in the United States.   I couldn't find topless, only nude.  A handful in Florida, California and Hawaii.  Two in Texas and one each in Massachusetts, Michigan, Nevada, Oregon, New Jersey and Wisconsin.

When I lived in Virginia in the mid-80s, the locals told us there was a nude beach in North Carolina. I believe they said in Nags Head. Or what they call the Outer Banks (OBX).  I found a site that said there were several nude beaches in both Carolinas but they were not mentioned in the other sites I read.

Well, it's not my cup of tea.  I don't even feel comfortable wearing low-cut tops.